Janet Mock – redefining Realness

Julia Serano – Whipping Girl: A Transsexual woman on sexism and the scapegoating of femininity[a feminist analysis of the position of trans woman in society that highlights society’s overall attitudes to all things feminine]

Leslie Feinberg – Trans Liberation: Beyond Pink or Blue

Ari Lev – Transgender Emergence: Therapeutic Guidelines for Working With Gender-Variant People and Their Families:

Kate Bornstein – Gender Outlaw

Kate Bornstein – My Gender Workbook 

Judith Butler – Gender Trouble: Feminism and the Subversion of Identity

Cordelia Fine – Delusions of Gender [a wonderful examination of the science of sex difference]

Jackie Kay – Trumpet [A novel about a jazz musician assigned female at birth but living as a man]

Transgender-friendly books for kids [I haven’t read these but the link was too useful not to include!]

b. binaohan – decolonizing Trans/gender 101

Lucie Fielding – Trans Sex: Clinical Approaches to Trans Sexualities and Erotic Embodiments

Jo Green – The Trans Partner Handbook:  A Guide for When Your Partner Transitions

C Riley Snorton – Black on both sides: A Racial History of Trans Identity Paperback